i'm a married, 40 year old woman who's dh doesn't want to have sex. it sucks. i was watching porno and could not believe the sizes of some of these penis's!!!!!!! one guy had a penis the size of my arm.

I think a lot of racism, sexism and homophobia along with most religions will die out with the "Baby Boomers" and whats left of the "Greatest Generation" And you all may have had the best economy in the history of the world, but you really screwed it up for everyone that came after you.

This weekend, DH and I spent the night at a fancy nearby hotel for his birthday. We ate dinner, drank wine, went upstairs and had crazy sex and then he fell asleep at 8:30. Hm. So I watched 2 episodes of the Tudors (love JRM) and finally decided to go downstairs to the bar (DH is a notoriously heavy sleeper). After calling him and texting, I had the front desk call and tell him "a guest was waiting for him in the bar". He thought it was morning, and that I had been kidnapped! Silly Man!

Yesterday after rough sex I stood up to use the bathroom and queefed. And subsequently shot his um...deposit out of me like water from a hose. First time in a long time I was embarrassed around him. Sex is gross D:

Do women really think crawling into bed wearing sexy lingerie matters to a guy? It's a waste of money. Try crawling into be wearing nothing but a smile, now that's sexy.

DH and I have a deal...we started working out together in the mornings. If he gets up and does it with me, we'll have sex in the shower after. If he doesn't even try, no sex. So far it's working! Losing weight and having more sex, win/win!

DH said last week he'd be willing to give up a year of sex with me if it meant the Giants winning the Super Bowl. The sad thing is, he wasn't joking.

For the OP who wanted the friend to flirt with and give her tingles - I have that guy. He calls me beautiful and makes me feel sexy, desirable, AND loved. It does not get released in the form of foreplay with your husband. You just dwell on it and it eventually makes you crazy.

In a perfect world I would have a 'friend' I could flirt with all the time, who gave me the sexual tingles just from his words alone...and then I'd spend all that amazing foreplay horniness on my DH. For now, that guy lives in my head.

Trash the dress sessions are rarely about the dress. It's 2 things: First of all, another way for the photography industry to sneak another type of session in for a bride (engagement, boudoir, wedding, trash the dress). Secondly, it's an opportunity for the bride to get a little crazy, a little sexy, and experience something they probalby never will again, which is the opportunity to feel like a model for a day. Normally those dresses sit in closets for eons. Why not have fun with it?