I got revenge on a cheating ex years ago. It was not physical or violent. It was the truth. Telling people what type of person that he really was. Toxic people can hide their behavior but many can tell something is "off" with those who choose to live under the guise of lies. He said I ruined his life. Sorry but the truth hurts. Unlike you I told no lies.

I've been cheated on and stayed. I revenge cheated and that is what got me out of the put of despair my dh had me in. I knew then I wasn't worthless and my dh took note at how I was wanted by another and could easily leave. It was a rough few years but it's been 12 yrs and there has been no more nonsense. Yes, the situation was all around bad but our family life is envied by many. No one needs to know all the details.

I had sex behind my bf back. I did it out of revenge. I knew he must have been cheating on me, or looking to meet someone else, cause every time when we'd have sex in the beginning of our relationship, he'd pull away if I started to suck on his neck. He lets me suck on his neck now, no problems. I used to snoop on him also, and one time I drove past his house and his ex wife's car was parked on the street in front of his house and the lights were off. I knew he must have been cheated on me that fat pig of an ex wife. I am now faithful to him and will never cheat on him again.

i still ride you about the 2 you (repeatedly) fucked while we were dating. but i fucked your best friend as revenge sex. he was awful, but i still feel good knowing i did.

He didn't end his relationship with her when I confronted him about it. He just got better at hiding it. I was stupid for thinking he repented and would suddenly love me enough to be faithful. Why do I still have a hard time getting angry with him? I guess because I just love him. But I can't trust him anymore. If he hid it this long, how will I know if he does it again? I can't live my life constantly being suspicious of my husband. My family is furious, my friends are furious, but I'm just sad. I don't want revenge, I just want to not hurt anymore.

I would never say this out loud, but I don't think I'd have ever fully gotten over my DH cheating had I not cheated (with my ex) two years later. I didn't do it looking for revenge or anything, and I fessed up after it happened, but it forced me to come down from my high horse. I realized that if I could cheat and still love my DH, it meant it was possible that he loved me even when he cheated too. I know this sounds backwards to anyone who hasn't been there, but personally I'm glad that DH and I were able to work through the mutual hurts and have a strong, trusting relationship years later.

It's time to quit all this shit,isn't it? The lies, the guilt, the unfaithfulness? The cheating, unforgiveness, the fake stuff? The revenge. Bitterness, anger, sadness. All of it. It's time to decide. All the way. Or bust.

I think a good revenge would be to take a pair of cockroaches to their house and let them loose under the fridge. Where can I find some?

DH has been adding more fiber to his diet to keep his colon healthy. Positive right? Unfortunately he tends to share his fiber rich food with the dogs. Especially since our vet says many of foods are very good for pups. You farty assholes! All 3 of you! You may not die from colon cancer but I might suffocate from the toxic fumes in this house!! I've been eating tons of fiber for years so I suppose this is revenge.

Thank you SIL. Your hate and jealousy has motivated me to live my life to the fullest! I am well on my way of fulfilling my dreams. The best revenge is living well. You will never know happiness with an envious heart so you can continue sulking in your misery.