I wish the Program Mgr would see her BFF with professional glasses instead of friendship glasses. Her BFF has a position she sucks at. PM has been told by various people that BFF is the wrong person for the job. If you're going to reprimand me for my work than you should do the same to your BFF. I'm tired of doing her job for her but you praise her for job well done. Thankfully you can pull the reports and see the footstamp of who did what. BFF does nothing but feed you lies of how busy she is when she's not. Open your damn eyes!

i have a married coworker, a good man but i feel very umcomfortable about his friendship with a new subordinate and im not the only one. i totally believe it shouldnt matter if she is swinging on a pole butt naked to get his attention because hes a good man who loves his wife but i still feel umcomfortable that he doesnt see their actions are bordering on inappropriate.

ohhh bitch you are so effing weird I don’t give a eff you if you don’t like me !! You were the one who came crying to me asking if there was something you did to upset ME I have no problem with you but I don’t wish to hang out with you or have a friendship outside of the work environment .... Telling the sup to look at my time sheet will not win you any points in my book mmkkkk and FYI I am not a schemer ok I am here all the effing time and only leave to ruin errands for work !!! booya

its funny, i thought i would hit my 1 year divorce anny, and freak out about not being in a relationship, half way to married....but honestly i love my life. have a good steady job, pay sucks but i love what i do. i've made some amazing friends, had friendships become stronger and i am so proud of myself for taking that major step and enrolling on college. wow, what a true blessed year!!\

(cont) I found out about your new job through the grapevine and on FB. It would've been one thing if I'd been a fair-weather friend or whatever, but I wasn't. I was a damn good friend to you, we were buddies who *I thought* supported each other, and I could have helped you through this if you'd given it a chance. But you decided it was better for you to just leave and avoid me from now on, even if that meant embarrassing me professionally and losing my friendship. Well, wish granted. I will not stand to be treated that way. You are no longer my friend.

OP from brakes on the CW friendship--when I said circle I meant it as in 'circle of trust', I am not in a clique or anything (I can't stand that anyway) I just don't trust many people and am very cautious and take things slow. I've been burned in the past by those I've trusted too soon.

I hate having to put the brakes on a friendship but when you are a co-worker that has worked her way into my circle and then starts asking super personal questions, I have to question your motives.

If my friend would have gotten this job with me, it would have ruined our friendship.

I posted a while back about my friend and I applying at the same place, and being anxious about the negative effects it would have on our friendship. Turns out, she took another job, and I got hired at this place :] So relieved. Crisis avoided, and we both got great jobs!

My friend and I are applying for two of the same positions in this company. I would love the job, but I think it would be detrimental for us to work together. She is jealous, sensitive, and idealistic. I'm not sure she realizes what goes into having a career; this would be her first real job. I feel like a bad friend, but I really just want to avoid hurting our friendship. I don't know what to do if we both get offers.