I posted over the summer, when my daughter was a newborn, that I thought having a baby ruined our marriage. (Not that I was blaming the baby by any means). Things have gotten a lot better. She'll be 9 months old at the end of the month and things are much, much better.

Had sex with dh twice last night. Both times, mindblowing and multiple orgasmic. Sex with him keeps getting better. And with nine years of marriage and three kids it is nice to know we still got it (even though we dont get it as often as we used to).

Ok, I know its Saturday... I'm sick, have a day to sit on the couch and do nothing. Update. Please. Update! I don't like goat cheese, I wash my kids, and I think gay marriage is cool. So please, update!

For all those people who say that "marriage" is between a man and a woman, well, then, fine! If I was gay, I'd be thinking "You can keep you damn word: marriage!" Let's get some creative marketing person to come up with a NEW word for a legal union between 2 people of the same sex.

If someone can explain to me how gay marriage is wrong, without saying "because the bible says so," I might listen. Until then, I don't feel there's any valid argument.

So the bible also says that women must be virgins for a marriage. If not the marriage is void and unholy. How many of us were/are virgins yet we stand around saying gays can't marry. Fucking lame.

I do not read confessions that do not allow comments. The comments are the best part IMO. IRL people politely listen quietly to abject nonsense. Here someone else actually comments what the hell are you thinking. And then, IRL, women complain why didn't anybody tell me before it was too late that he was an asshole, I should not eat like a pig while pregnant, not getting pregnant the first month you try is not God smoting you, fat and depressed often not good for a marriage. Oh yeah, IRL everybody just smiled and let me do my thing.

I believe the Bible says that people who are against gay marriage shouldn't be allowed to marry. Who wants to form a political party with me?

I didn't marry the wrong person. We just had too many kids. 4 is too many for him, 4 is too many for me. But you can't just disown a couple of kids in order to save the marriage. Too bad.

If you really believe that husbands will tell their wives what they want to hear then you already have a troubled marriage.