I became an aunt two days ago for the first time. I am 1100 miles away from home. As if this wasn't bad enough, I found out he is a methadone baby, and will be in the NICU for the next six days to two weeks. I am so angry at this planned pregnancy between two people who knew each other three months. And now they are having trouble dealing with the outcome of their actions. The thought of my poor nephew going through withdrawal brings tears to my eyes. I hope those two grow up....and fast!.

I love him. I married him. We've been together for almost a decade. I'll never be a Mom. my heart breaks with every New pregnancy announcement.

5 months pregnant, worst pregnancy ever. All I've been hearing is that our sex life isn't what it was before I was pregnant. I just gave him some great sex, no not the best sex ever, but I worked thru the pain & the fact that I'm not supposed to be doing it. He falls asleep 2 seconds after without a word. I just want to be worth something to someone. Someday. At some point in my life. I don't know why I took it so personal...but now I'm crying. I just wish I could leave and raise my baby on my own. What's the point of relationships anyway?

I absolutely love my DH and miss him every single day, but I have come to the realization that this pregnancy was by far much easier mentally with him deployed than my first while he was here.

You are pregnant with your 4th child! You should know what to expect. Quit coming on a military wives board and bitching every 5 minutes about being pregnant and your discomfort. You are not the first woman to be pregnant. It's getting old real fast. Everytime I see your name I know you are bitching about your pregnancy! ANNOYING!

So close to the end of this pregnancy and so close to another deployment with the hubby. I don't know whether to be excited or sad, but I do know almost anything is making me cry. Dang hormones! At least I will have my little man to cuddle with while his daddy is gone and by the looks of the ultrasound, he's going to be the spitting image of his dad.

I just took a pregnancy test in the commissary bathroom.

I really feel sorry for your husband. He is much younger than you. Took in your three kids, and got you pregnant. Eeeks! All you do is complain about the military (you know it's pointless since your exhusband was also military) and act like this is your first pregnancy. I give this marriage 2 years, if that.

I don't understand ho having my sister's baby is disrespectful to my dh.It is not my dh's body it is mine. If I got a promotion at work without his permission would that be disrespectful? I see the two on the same level as affecting my life. Probably less, because pregnancy is temporary. Yes I will tell him I'm doing it. He just wouldn't have a lot of say in the matter. He also wont have to deal with my emotions because he will be gone. Nuff said.

My DH & I have been trying to conceive for over 3years now. We tried for more than a year, had all the tests docs could think of, tried IVF 2 times and nothing. It got to the point where even looking at a pregnancy test makes me want to cry & we gave up hope. DH was deployed 10months ago &was home for R&R 3 months. About a month after he left, I started feeling nauseous in the morning but ignored it since its happened to me b4 w/the result a - test. I finally went to the doc 2 weeks ago & found out I'm pregnant! DH is home in a week from deployment &I can't wait 2tell him. He'll be estatic!!!