Thank God for Skype. It often feels like my webcam makes my work, marriage, and family life possible. Today I'm grateful for the things it's easy to take for granted.

I've been a horrible sister. A wk b4 Xmas my sister found out her dh had fathered a child and had been seeing the girl on and off for 2yrs. I advised her 2 take time and sort things out. Ell she called yesterday 2 tell me she's staying in the marriage. Let's just say I wasnt very supportive. I mean I feel like shes making a big mistake. I nderstand dealing with cheating but 2 bring a baby into the mix is torture. My sis is smart with a great career while this fool barely brings home anything and to do this...I just dont get it. How do you be there for someone you think is making a mistake?

I really feel sorry for your husband. He is much younger than you. Took in your three kids, and got you pregnant. Eeeks! All you do is complain about the military (you know it's pointless since your exhusband was also military) and act like this is your first pregnancy. I give this marriage 2 years, if that.

I'm newly married to a navy corpsman (lil over 6 mos). He is in the field for 2 days- and I'm so bored. I'm on disability, so my career is on hold. He doesn't like my friends, so I respect him and have withdrawn from my previous life. He deploys in 2 mos. If I'm this bored/lonely/unfulfilled now, what will I do in a few months? I dunno... Guess I have forgotten who I AM and immersed myself in the marriage. I live downtown, in a place I love. He wants me to move upon deployment to my dad's (OH) or mom's (NC)... Ugh. He thinks I'll get in "trouble" here... Wanna respect him, but...

We are going through a rough patch right now and it is affecting my social life in a negative manner. One of my girlfriends told me that she needs me to stop being so catty and harsh and go back to being the nicer version of me. I can't help but to be cynical right now though. I dk if it's his last tour to Afghan that changed it, our pending PCS, or the fact that I resent him for not holding me back but really holding me back from my ambitions. It's probably a mix of all of it and more. I just don't know how to reconnect. I think my marriage is failing.

My husband is so fucking sexy....I'm glad he dis- virgin me 12 years ago....He just made love to me too, 12 years of marriage with 4 kids....Can't ask for more...love you!!

My husband has never easily shared his emotions with anyone including me and always gets offensive when I try to talk to him about how it makes me feel & before he deployed in November I felt we had become distant. When he could finally call he would tell me how much he misses us and how lucky he is to have me etc. and how he really wants to improve our marriage. Well 2 months later he is already back to the selfish jerk he was before he left. I seriously don't deserve this.

I'm not a military wife anymore, but I still come to the Military Wife page to read all the confessions. Sometimes I miss being an Army wife. Wish we could have worked out the problems that were in our marriage instead of divorcing.

I have lost a connection with my husband recently and I feel as if I have fallen out of love with him, cliche but it is how I feel. I just recently told him this and he is really upset over it. He is getting ready to have orders cut and move on to his second duty station so this could not have come at a worse time. We have been discussing divorce because the last thing he wants to do is drag me across country when I do not want to be with him. I care for him but I don't know if I love him enough to stay in this marriage.

Honesty and trust have always been so important to me. This relationship has ruined me. I promised to stick around for marriage counseling, but all I want is to be either truly alone or with someone else, anyone else. I'm ready to toss my morals and find myself a lover.