You just keep thinking you're the victim. No lies were ever told about you. The messages that YOU sent to someone else's husband telling him you loved him, that he was your soulmate, and how you so badly wanted to have his babies were what we were told about and SHOWN. And, we were told so that you wouldn't take advantage of OUR friendship and go after our husband's like you did to her. But, you keep thinking, "poor poor me. One person told all these lies to my friends and now they hate me." We just know what you really are even though you don't want to admit it to yourself. SKANK.

My best friend, whom I met at our first duty station 11 years ago, has become addicted to perscription drugs. I am unsure what to do for her at this point. I have stopped loaning her money and since then only hear from her when she needs something. I'm so sad and know I must mourn the loss of our friendship.

Can't believe how one-sided my DH is being. He is okay to have close friendships with other womemn and hang out and have all kinds of fun. But if I even mention I talked to a guy friend, he blows his stack. He says they are like sisters to him. If I try to say the same about my guy friends, he doesn't believe me. UGH I hate chauvenism!!!!!

You need to realize when you throw around false accusations, you could not only hurt your own marriage, but other peoples as well! Your insecurities could ruin the lives of other people and children! I'm so grateful I have a DH knows better! You almost ruined 2 marriages, a friendship, and the lives of 3 kids! You did, however, ruin another friendship... ours. You also ruined your husbands image! good job!

I met a chick here & we clicked great! My DH is friends w her DH, so mine texted hers asking for her # to give to me. Her DH gives my DH his own # (It didn't click w my DH that it was the same number). So all this time I think I'm texting with her, he's pretending to be her! I texted earlier to see if we can hang out tomorrow, she emails me bitching me out & ended our friendship. I told her 3times I thought I was texting her, not her DH,yet she still blames me. I've been crying cuz I really liked her. WTF! I'm a victim too, her DH tricked me into thinking I'd been texting her!

I know you were going to swingers parties in Germany and I know you are doing it back home now. I really don't care because it isn't my problem. I just think it is funny to let you keep up the charade about how you are being celibate while you are 'fixing you'. You aren't fooling anyone and it is interesting to see how easily you can lie to people. It makes me wonder if any of our friendship was ever true or if I was just convenient to go to the bar with.

i just dont understand. we are military wives! miles from our homes and family's. yet every person i meet has to gossip and start drama. dude i just got here and i dont know anybody. just wish people were nice and wanted real friendships not act like children!

Not going to school doesn't make me less of a person but it does make you more of a bitch for thinking so. What happened to basing friendships on personality and not a degree? You can be smart and well spoken without college. There's no rule against it.

I think we both sense the friendship will not be continued. Neither of us want to say it or do anything like a Facebook delete, but you can just tell there's tension. It's nice because when she moves here we don't have to exchange fake pleasantries or turn each other away. Neither of us will make an effort, and I'm so relieved. I don't think I can handle being around her, especially with her latest news. Ugh, just leave me alone girl, you know it's for the best!

My DW deployed 2 months ago I'm a stay home Dad my next door neighbor is a good friend since he moved in we clicked from the day we met like we knew each other 4 years he also deployed with my DW. My wife gave his wife my Cell# for emergencies this past 2 weeks shes been sending me erotic text with sexual advances + self naked pics. Should I tell him when he gets back, should I save the text to save my tail? my DW knows I told her she trust me and I trust her shes my life. I don't want 2 lose my friendship with him hes the only male friend and only friend I have on base. what should I do?