We moved to Germany a little less than a year ago. We live in a nice neighborhood about 30 minutes away from base. I have very few friends, 3, two of my friends live about an hour away. Here is the dilemma, my "other friend" is a German single guy who we both have befriended. My husband is having a hard time with me having a friendship with him. I understand him but I personally think it isn't fair to me that he feels this way. I am doing the best I can to stay afloat emotionally here in Germany. How can I handle this? I have a hard time making friends and this leaves me in tough spot.

You talked horribly about me to my own sister months before our friendship ended.EVERYONE including the ex said you were using me as a babysitter, and dog sitter and that your husband just "used him to fix things for free"(among other things said).I defended you and your husband.I was ALWAYS there.YOU ASSUMED i said all these horrible things and never once came to me as a "best friend".You of all people know i didn't "slut" around or forge any documents.You knew the person that he was.No one deserves that.Stop using my past as an excuse for the shit bag friend you were to me,for months.

my sil has removed me, for the second time, from her FB friends. Now she has requested my FB friendship again. What to do, what to do.... hmmmm.... (I am push over if i accept, and a bitch if i delcine....)

My best friend and I grew apart after dh joined the military and we moved away. We talked at least once a week for the first year, then every other week. I always made time to spend time with her, when I would come home. I told her everything and I thought we were okay. Once dh got out and we moved home, it wasn't the case. She made a comment that told me exactly where our friendship stood. We don't talk and I'm fine with that because we obviously do not relate to each other anymore. It happens to best of us. Now that dh is out it's hard to relate to a lot of people but I try.

Your my best friend youve been here for my since high school and i will always love you but what your doing is wrong. Your not 18 anymore, you cant keep pushing you children aside and cheating on your fiance to better suit your life. Ive made mistakes, but ive acknowledged them. You have not and you have no remorse for how your acting. I miss the person you used to be. I dont know this person that you are now. I love you but im going to give our friendship of 9 years some time and space.

I'm okay with looking like the bad guy because I'm not trying to get him in trouble and I'm keeping my mouth shut about what he did..but when his family calls ME a liar even after HE told them what he did..that makes me want to snap. Yeah, I'm not running my mouth trying to ruin his career, but just because I'm being quiet doesn't mean I'm lying. I just still believe in him as a person and love his friendship. I'm not out to hurt people I care about, no matter how badly he hurt me..and if that makes me the bad guy then I guess I'm just the biggest bitch ever.

WTF! How does a best friend of 8 years let her controlling, horrible BF destroy everything around her? Including a friendship that was more like a sisterhood? I am so freakin sad..She left him moved back home and I just saw on FB that he moved 2,000 miles and they are now back together! LOVELY! Learn that friends are forever, hes not! STUPID ASS!

I am a horrible person! My next door is going through a divorce, she's been asking me constantly to use my PC, print, watch her kids, affidavit for character witness. Today she came over and asked if she could borrow my car for court. (last week she just wrecked hers and it's still in the shop) I said no and I tried to tell her nicely that I feel she's taking advantage of my friendship. She said she was sorry but she needs help. Well, if you can't be self sufficient now what makes you think you'll be self sufficient later. I feel so guilty about it but GOD... she needs to do it herself.

I'm so used to being a loner! This friendship business is really kind of exhausting. But it's nice. I hope it stays that way.

I dumped my former BFF. We had been friends for over a decade, but then she stopped contributing to the friendship. I found out she lied about a few things. So, I wrote her and told her I haven't considered us friends in years, and she didn't have to worry about me "bothering" her anymore. I told her she won't be hearing from me anymore, and I blocked her. I needed that closure.