I am so depressed... I had a miscaariage today and it seems like dh doesnt even care.... I want to be a mother so bad but my body wont let it happen ... all I have done is cry

OMG! I just got caught stealing at the PX. The asshole loss prevention guy put me in handcuffs in front of everyone. So embarrassed. But that's not the worst part...I don't know how I'm going to explain this to my DH who is currently deployed. My DH who just happens to be an MP. FML!

AGH!!! so frustrated!! DH said he'd call this morning, but he didn't. i got pissed and sent an angry FB message, to which he replied he'd been out on mission. he was definitely annoyed that i was upset. turns out he called later on but i missed it! now i'm even more upset and feel like a jerk. who knows when he'll call again?! :/

The reason I know dh isn't messing with girls in his unit? He yells at them. Lol what girl wants a guy that has nothing but harsh words about how they work? He's not like that too me but work is work. Besides he thinks army girls look manly. I saw 3 that I thought were men for sure. Until I got closer. They are no threat.

It frustrates me that some women will divorce their husbands "because the war changed him." I married DH knowing he's in the military, knowing he's deploying, and understanding that yeah, he's going to come back a different man. I love him, he's my husband, and as his wife, it is my job to help him stay centered and grounded and to do my best to help him through whatever demons he acquires. And to just be damn supportive if nothing else helps.

So frustrated with dh right now. We have one car and I had to bring him home during lunch and wanted him to take the car back without me. He INSISTED I go with so I could go to the education center and that by the time I'm done he'd be out. I spent ten minutes there and will spend 2-3 hours sitting in the car waiting for him instead of doing things I need to do at home and can't do while he is there. The kicker is I have to come down sometime to renew my ID, which I can't do until 2 weeks before it expires which won't be till next week at the earliest.

I don't know what to do... We always talked about having 2 kids. We agreed a 2.5 year age gap would be perfect, but that window came and left. Now that we finally have her medical problems pretty much straightened out, DD is 1.5 weeks shy of turning 3. DH is now saying he is happy with just our one. Either way, he's deploying in a couple months. Even if he decides to have another one after the deployment, we are looking at a 4.5 to 5 year age gap..

My DH was deployed when DD, our 1st child, was only 1 month old. He missed a lot of firsts & we both hated it. DH came home after a 11 month deployment 2 weeks ago and got to see a amazing first which was DD's first steps. DD had been getting close for the last few weeks but never actually took a step. The night he came home, our entire family was there. He put her on the floor & started to walk away when she yelled, very woobly stood up and took a few steps. It was amazing. The look on his face was priceless.

You are deployed, update your facebook, but don't email me back. Thanks DH.

My family lives in the South, DH's in the Northwest. The closest we've been stationed to either side of our families is ten hours. We've been married almost eight years and no one from my family has met his family and no one from his family has met my family. Just seems odd to me but that's the military (especially when you don't have a wedding)