From the cheating posts, to the phone call from my friend today about someone else cheating & getting divorced. It has it on my mind and I know this is wrong but i always think, 'well dh and my odds went up that we won't get divorced'. What is it something like half of all marriages end in divorce.

4 yrs ago when DH got back from AIT he had texts on his phone to a girl saying I miss you, what are you wearing, cant wait to kiss you again, and she wrote the same stuff to him I confronted him about it and he said it was her fiance he was writing they were all in AIT together and they were just playing around...So did you cheat or are you Gay? cause straight men dong play like that. I tried to get passed it but i think about it all the time.

My friend's husband is in the Army, he's fresh out of AIT, and he's getting deployed in a few days. I'm sad for my friend, I've been there before, my DH is ex-military. But I'm glad she'll be here during the deployment so she can reap the benefits of having friends and family close by. Don't worry, man, we'll keep her busy and her spirits up! Stay safe!

Ok, I'm so tired of the other families in DH company harping us on how we can afford a new car when he's only a LCpl, I'm sorry we know how to manage our money an d not blow it away on crap we don't need other than getting our kids' clothes we don't spend our money and save it!!

The other night at a friend's party I was asked where my DH was. After saying he was deployed, one girl said, "Oh well, you knew what you were getting into. Can't complain." So a few hours later as she was vomiting all over herself after drinking too much, I politely reminded her of her own words.

My husband has been deployed for 4 months and I'm almost 6 months pregnant. I went back home last week because my family wanted to throw me a baby shower. At the shower a old acquaintance (after a couple drinks) said "God you're so lucky that Jacob (my DH)isn't here all the time. You get your own space & arent stuck w/him all the time". I was so shocked at her words that I burst into tears and then got angry and said "I'd love to be "stuck" with my DH all the time and to know that he is safe and sound. And I'd kill to know if he is going to be here for our 1st child's birth"

My DH asked me today, is there anything you would change, after the last 7 yrs together. I told him, nothing!! I don't regret meeting him, marrying him, having kids with him and waiting for months at a time for him to come home! Next to my kids, he is the person I would give anything for!! Still to this day he gives me butterflies when I see him or he kisses me.

I love my DH with all my heart. Without thinking, he called me fat this morning while we were skyping. I know he didn't truly mean it. But it hurts. Not what I was expecting to hear this morning. But helps lose that last 15 lbs!! Oh and it is our Anniversary today. He can make a day special from thousands of miles away!!

2 kids home sick, 2 kids in school, shopping, cleaning, all while texting and waiting for phone calls from DH. As hard as this is I LOVE being an Army wife! I can't wait for the next adventure! At the end of our life we're gonna have some good stories to tell!

We just found out that my Dh won't have to deploy to Afghanistan next January after all. I feel SO relieved, as is he. I guess sometimes things DO work out. I'll have to mark it on my calendar!