Some people (like me) believe that marriage is a sacred institution made before God and if you want to have children, you do that after getting married. My fiancé and I have been engaged for a year and have not had sex, ever. Marriage is most decidedly not just a piece of paper for us. I really wish people would remember that others have very different viewpoints and that it's not fair to generalize or look down on others for having sincere beliefs that hurt no one and are not shoved down anyone's throat (many of our friends have no idea we feel this way).

I've been growing out my body hair so I can get everything waxed for our wedding in a couple of weeks. I know I'm going to feel super sexy once it's off, but right now I feel like a caveman!

White is pretty but you can wear whatever your want. I think Miranda looked absolutely gorgeous on Sex and the City when she married Steve in that plumb colored dress. Now Carrie, on the other hand, looked awful when she went to marry Big in the movie.

New Years Eve; Marathon sex, then he proposed. #GoodYear

I spent 200 on my dress. Mom did alterations and we designed and made the veil together. Shoes were the same as I wore to my hs graduation 2 years before (that's how little I wear heels, lol). This was in 95. I was on a pretty strict budget. If I got married today, I'd probably budget between 1k and 1500. To include dress, alterations, veil, shoes, sexy underthings.

Question: "Who would have thought that your younger (7 yrs) brother would be getting married first. How are you handling that?" Response: "I guess it's a good thing that I don't believe in sexist and ridiculous old fashioned values that place the value and quality of a womans life on whether or not she has a man." I'd say I deflected that bingo pretty well...and then started discussing the amazing vacation I'm planning for 2012 :-)

My "friends" (work ppl I barely know) asked me to come in late for some emergency, and it turns out they had planned a hens night. I felt too bad to just leave. There was a stripper and everything. I hate strippers, am not a "secret sexual being just waiting to be let free" and have nothing in common with you people. They spent the whole time trying to convince me to get sexier underwear and wouldn't talk about anything else. Most awkward two hours of my life.

I'm going to wear a little sexy red dress with knee-high black boots at my wedding ceremony, and we're going to elope in Vegas. :)

I just wanna elope so we can get to the sex!

He thinks he has a big penis. But really its below avrg. I tell him its just fine but I really wish it were a lot bigger. I wish it looked like the other men iv seen pictures of. It doesnt even look manly at all. I always thought size wouldnt matter but then I relized it does when you have to fake climax, cant even feel it much and have to finish off later :( Im lucky he is at least a great guy and that overides my stupid great sex penis dreams lol. But I cant help feel bad for wanting it like that and guilty for even insulting him in my mind. Okay done ranting.