I just realized that from 2 years together to 3 years together I had some hardcore wedding rabies. Now that I've calmed down I'm worried that that intense pushy year is the REASON I don't have a ring yet. Girlfriends everywhere don't pressure your man, it doesn't help and it probably hurts.

So far I have loved having other friends, relatives, etc. that are also engaged. But I found out today that my cousin proposed today (this is his THIRD engagement to his THIRD different girlfriend in THREE years). He is a great guy and I know how badly he wants a marriage and a family, but you can't be seriously ready to commit like this. I wonder if he is using the same ring!! His mother is super excited and comparing it to our engagement. Sorry but I don't take his seriously, I'll believe there will be an actual wedding when I see it. I don't know why this bothers me so much...

When my (then) girlfriend and I got in a huge fight and broke up, my whole family was devastated. When we got back together and started to plan our wedding, my grandmother said "If she ever talks about breaking up again, just ignore her." It warmed my heart because I knew if my grandma approved, we would be together forever. Five years later, I still think she is right. Lesbian marriages can totally work. My grandma said so. :)

I talked to my brother today and he let me know that he is asking his girlfriend to marry him soon! HE BOUGHT A RING! I am so fucking excited and happy for them :) One day I hope to have a man who loves me like those two love each other.

My FH's ex girlfriend wrote him a two page letter about how they're soul mates and that she still loves him and knows he feels the same way about her. I trust him, I know he loves me, and I know he'll never leave me. I just thought the ex-gf drama would end when we got engaged. Doesn't she get it, he picked me for a reason.

Today the guy who broke my heart in college marries his morbidly obese, dumb as a rock girlfriend. we know a lot of the same people thats how I found out......

My BIL's girlfriend is so great & he loves her so much. I know he hasn't proposed because of the $$. If I had it-I would just give it to him. Hang in there girlie-we all love you!

I hate my fiancee's twin brother with a passion. He has acted like an ass to me ever since we met a few weeks ago. And now I hate him even more, I had a pregnancy scare this past week and my fiancee told his brother for support. His brother pinned this all on me saying this was all my fault and called me a slut, which caused my fiancee to almost lose control and hit him in the face. He's jealous because his twin has a fiancee while he can't keep a girlfriend for more than three months because of his attitude towards the world and his disrespect to women. I don't know how to deal with him.

My confession is that last weekend, my girlfriend really pissed me off by saying things like "if we get married" and "when I get married". "If?" "I"? Yeah, I don't think so. So I talked to her about how it put me off, and that I believe WE are ready to get married, so I bought the ring on Tuesday, and I am proposing tomorrow evening.

I just made a tumblr so that I can brag about what I want in my wedding wihtout my friend's girlfriend stealing my ideas for her own! I feel awesome! :)