I have a long-time, very good friend. She had PPD, but overcame it & is going back to school. She's the best mother I know. But she's starting to worry me lately. She's trying to be more "social" to make up for her years of PPD. First it was a "harmless" flirtation with a guy friend. (Her H is not cool with that, obviously.) Then she took up beer-drinking as a hobby. O-kaaay. Now she's smoking pot. WTF, girl? Maybe I'm a stick in the mud, but I could see 1 or 2 of those, but all 3? It makes me wonder what's really going on with her.