I wish I was as sexual with DH as I used to be. But I was 17-18 when we met. I know it's not a LONG time, but 10 years, 2 kids and 20 lbs later and I just don't feel like *I'm* sexy anymore. I know he'd be into it the way we used to, but I'm just letting him down. Where is the girl that used to go ALL NIGHT...LITERALLY. My vibrator hasn't come out it at LEAST 2 years and I can't even remember the last time I got myself off. Can you just lose your drive? This is not right and it SUCKS!