My husband lost his full time job right before DD was born. His home business is now thriving, he is watching DD while I teach, and goes to a part time job from 5-9 most nights during the week. He is amazing with DD, and is a sweetheart to me. Is it so wrong that I still get irrationally grumpy when he does not wash, or at least rinse, bottles when he is done feeding DD? Ew, old breast milk! But it is nice to be able to complain about such trivial things after such a rocky few months! :-D