I don't understand women that say they have never had sex or haven't had sex in 10 years or whatever. I can understand waiting for "the one", but those that just want sex can get it. I am 44 and a bit chubby; got a few laugh lines. Honestly, I could get sex every weekend. It is everywhere. However, in holding out for a relationship, that isn't that hard either. I find so many men that just want love as much as we do. I have met some very nice men. Some I have had sex and a relationship with; some I haven't. I just don't get not being able to get anything at all for 10 years. Smile!!