He actually just said "well, if I'm gonna start sleeping with you, I might as well just get out of my relationship and start dating you"!!! We are trying to be very level headed about this. I gave him some time to think it over - we haven't done anything yet. We haven't even been in the same room together for more than 5yrs but we've been talking again for a month now. The chemistry is obviously still there - I want him so bad. This is getting dangerous for my heart, but I guess I'll know soon enough. Either he will be with me or we will lose touch again...please let it be me!