At a cookout this weekend an uninterested 3rd party mentioned some things BIL was saying to sister. Now, they're supposed to be "working on things" since their split a few mos. ago. He said "get me a fucking beer now..give me money (for ciggs) Just give it to me I KNOW you have it..get over here now..shut up, idiot" So, sis what happened to him "changing" in order to get back with you? Ladies, please don't ever let a man talk to you like this. Your lack of outrage leads him to think it's OK. Don't turn out like my sis, she's only 24. So sad! I just pray she doesn't have a kid with this loser!