I admire parents who fight for a diagnosis and treatment for their mentally/emotionally challenged children and use community resources for care. I despise parents who fight for a diagnosis, even an ill-fitting one, to qualify for community resouces (SSDI) for their children. How can you tell the difference? The committed parents keep fighting for diagnosis/treatment/improvement after they receive the money. The fakers get the label, the check, and send their neglected child to school for lunch and baby sitting.