I'm pregnant, i am planning a baby shower i dont want anymore. the reason is because my family thinks im having a baby too young (im 21, i should be 22 when the baby arrives) and they are not supporting me by attending a baby shower. the only way i can describe how i feel is dead inside. im still panning only because my husband's family is still coming. i'll just have to force a smile, they are the kind of people who try to cheer you up in a way that just doesn't help.