I'm beginning to think something is mentally wrong with my DS(5) and I'm heartbroken. He seems to lack the ability to listen. He'll tolerate losing privileges, time outs, spankings, and having his mouth washed out with soap only to turn around and do something he knows he's not allowed to do yet again. DH and I are at our wits end. I'm scheduling an appointment with our ped and asking for a pysch consult on Tuesday. We've needed help for a while. I'm beyond resentful and am now to the point where I hate my DS and hate being his mother. It shouldn't be like this.