I suspect my friend is scapegoating her 7yo boy. Keeps calling him "difficult," claims he's straining the marriage because husband "has" to go out of town for a break from him. Claims he's "bad at chores," "highly manipulative." (What kid isn't?) The dad ran over the family dog and somehow that's kid's fault too, because he didn't warn dad that the dog was there. (?) The boy doesn't have a disability, though he's pretty anxious. (Wonder why?) Should I make a gentle comment to my friend?