I just gave my months notice to the dayhome agency. I am so relieved. My kids hate this, I hate this- and I really thought I was about to have a nervous breakdown. I thought that I had the 'right stuff'- I thought wrong. It's a huge hit to our finances (Hubs is not too happy about that), but I don't care if I end up working fries at McDonalds, it will be better than this. I only made it 9 months with 4 under 3, kudos to those of you who can do this longterm.