After the blow up with SD's mother this weekend, DH is very seriously considering signing over his parental rights. I'm willing to continue to fight for her but I'll also understand, respect, and support dh's decision. It's not something he wants to do but he knows in his heart that it's the only way his daughter will be happy (although only because her mother has put that in her head) and that's what really matters...It'll absolutely break his heart though.