SD's mom moved her 2,000 miles away in August. She's supposed to send her to visit every other month, Xmas break, spring break, 8 weeks in summer (her idea). We've seen her for 1 1/2 days on New Year's. DH asked when she'd be here for the 8 week summer visit. She said maybe 2-3 weeks, not 8 because DH only has 2 weeks vacation from work and "the court papers say she's the first choice for "babysitter" when he has to work". Really bitch. You just quoted the papers you're in contempt of. I guess it'll be a rude awakening when DH shows up at her door with law enforcement to pick up his dd.