I am shocked by the lack of bedside manner of some Dr.s. We were having our son tested for ADD. It turns out his situation is mild but they feel his school work would improve if he was medicated. They put him on the lowest dose of Focalin available. Our Dr was out sick so we saw her partner. He said in front of our 9 yo that his "goal was to keep him from dropping out of school and out of jail." WTF??? He's a good kid who daydreams and has trouble focusing. Seriously? Was that necessary to say in front of him?