Posted by anonymous
BIL told me yesterday that he is going to have his vasectomy reversed so he can have a baby with current gf. What bugs me about this? He already has kids with another woman, gf has a kid, and they can't afford the kids they have much less more kids, much less an expensive surgery, & neither makes a lot of money. What are they thinking? DH & I waited years to have DD so we could be financially stable, have a house, etc. and our kid has a good life because of it. Why do people like BIL insist on continuing to have more kids???