I confess it takes a lot of patience and certain type of person to be a SAHM. I want to be one so badly but I have never been able to survive more that 6 months doing it. I think I let my job define who I am. I know it is wrong and I am working on not being so dysfuntional. I talk myself into feeling less productive because I am not geting paid in money but I realize everyday that I get paid in so many other ways. I wish can just get over this issue and be happy!