4 yrs ago when DH got back from AIT he had texts on his phone to a girl saying I miss you, what are you wearing, cant wait to kiss you again, and she wrote the same stuff to him I confronted him about it and he said it was her fiance he was writing they were all in AIT together and they were just playing around...So did you cheat or are you Gay? cause straight men dong play like that. I tried to get passed it but i think about it all the time.