DH and I were married @ JOP, but we are having a ceremony and reception for our third anniversary (he is an only child and he and MIL really wanted to do it up.). The only real parent I had was my grandmother, and she past away nearly ten years ago. So I am planning to wear a ring she gave me (her brother that died in WW2 gave it to her) on my right hand, and I am putting a big bright yellow rose (her favorite) in the middle of my otherwise purple boquet. That way, I will always feel like my grandma walked me down the aisle.