I love my fiance like no other... but it just occured to me... He is seriously emotionally and mentally abusive. I always told myself I wouldnt let a guy abuse me, and thought I wasnt... but he is doing it in a way i didnt realize. He is super controlling and im afraid to say or do anything around him for fear he is going to be mad at me again... and he has become the same way with my daughter... i dont know if I can marry him now...