My LIB's sister is getting married, and I am one of her bridesmaids. Her shower is coming up, but due to some crappy circumstances me and some other girls will not be able to attend. I feel absolutely horrible, & I feel as if I am betraying family (I mean, I am as close to being her SIL as you can get without being married to her brother). I am trying to think of something nice to do for her, all while being 2k+ miles away...