My bestfriend and I both got engaged within a few weeks of eachother. I am Indian (from India) and she is causasian and we both speak perfect english. I'm helping her plan her wedding as her MOH and I swear these vendors need to learn customer service. I have been looked down on, ignored or spoken to as if I was 2 years old so many times that I am going to clock the next person who does it. Earlier today we were talking to a caterer and the guy actually turned to my friend and told her to translate what he was saying for me.