Ok, hubbies best friend is getting married in march 2011 about 1100ks away from where hubby and I live. Weve already said we would go, because hubby is best man. The wedding dress code will be formal for all attending. I am not in the wedding party, but because I could possibly be in photos with the bride (coz of hubby being BM and son being ringbearer), she wants to decide which colour/style dress I wear and how I do my hair. This isnt normal is it? I think its already enough that we are willing to pay for travel and everything. Opinions please.